Every day, it's the same thing: get up, go to school, do homework, relax, eat dinner, go to bed. Occasionally I get a reprieve in the form of a friendly phone call or a fun activity, but mostly the monotony exists.
Strangely enough, I use my relaxation time to delve into my more reflective side. To those who know me, I know this might come as a shocker: I actually do have semi-intelligent thoughts.
It's strange. I look back on my younger self and realize how much I have changed.
As a child, until about my freshman-sophomore year of high school, I was pretty different. Thanks to my parents' "support" I loved to show off my "talents" and abilities in just about everything I did. I was a goody-goody and loved to tattle on anyone who did me wrong. I was a teacher's pet.
And then, I fell into fanfiction. I know, what a wierd way to transition your life.
But for some reason, fanfiction, and all that I've gotten into as an extension of it, has revealed me, opened me up to my real self.
I had never really understood why it was so much fun to give a character amazing and fantastic powers, to have them do absolutely anything in the world. I had gotten into the Super!Harry faction of fanfiction, for those of you who understand the terminology in the Harry Potter fandom world. And I liked it. It was fun to give Harry every possible way to defeat someone.
But as time wore on, I realized that there was no need to give a character extraordinary powers. Characters are like extensions of living human beings. They carry our wants, passions, and needs, expressing those things in ways we don't feel we can do in public.
I soon dropped the Super!Harry faction and moved onto more realistic or logical factions, or at least as realistic and logical as Harry Potter fanfiction gets.
These discoveries I made about fanfiction tied into my real life. I started analyzing myself and my actions more. I stopped acting like a know-it-all and a teacher's pet. Instead of being what my parents wanted me to be, I became what I wanted to be. And it was exhilarating.
I had never felt that before. And I had never had true, in every sense of the word, friends before. Sure, I knew people who were nice. I knew people who were funny. But I never had a friend that I could really call a good friend until my freshman year of high school.
Fanfiction opened my heart and my mind to other people. It gave me the freedom to have fun and enjoy the company of other beings without feeling trapped. I was suddenly able to forget about the importance of school work and my grades, and able to focus on enjoying myself. The pleasure I experienced was intoxicating.
I suppose this is simply blathering on to most people. It seems like it to me. But it is also a discovery that I never really was myself before four years ago. I just realized that I never allowed myself to understand the strange jokes of my peers nor laugh aloud with them at a particularly random comment.
Fanfiction was simply a milestone in my life. I realize now why my parents detested it so much- it took me away from everything they had taught me. They had trained me to be respectful, polite, and the perfect Asian child who would go to Harvard, become a doctor, marry, and raise the prestige of the family. My alternative form of fun changed that perspective into something that I actually believe in and want to follow.
I actually have friends now. Friends, I care about deeply and would do anything for. I have stories and worlds in my head, mixing ideas and characters for wonderful dreams as I sleep. I don't feel stressed or uneasy most of the time, as a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
Life is so much more fun to live now, and I honestly don't know how I lived without it before September 2003. I treasure my friends and my life.
I hope that someday, all teenagers will be able to find the happiness and joy in life that I have.